My neighbor said when she started dating, she met a nice guy, and she was excited because he treated her well. She said since her guy always listened to her, so sometimes she got bored because her guy was too nice, which let her have anxiety, depression.

A girl said she felt she’s wasting her time by staying with a guy who has weird behavior, so she feels she’s a failure. She said she’s torn between going back to her former lover or moving forward, getting rid of him and starting her life again.

My friend likes to be volunteer, she also does charity things, so she said she’s always scrambling when has meeting. Now she finds out what’s best for her and likes her own pace. So she said to her coworker that she’d learned something about BYOB: “Be your own bestie,” her coworker laughed.

If your guy said silly things, making stupid jokes, even cheating on you, what would you do? You may get upset, but you may also feel he sometimes seemed to offer support, advice; but what if he says: “I speak from the heart, do what I like”, even it’s crazy?